The Power of Positive Thinking: A Love Letter to the Girlies Pushing Through
Hey girl, hey!
I see you out here grinding, doing the most, and pushing through everything life is throwing your way. And let me just say—you’re doing AMAZING. But let’s be real, there are days when it feels like the weight of the world is sitting on your chest. It’s hard, it’s heavy, and sometimes, we’re just tired. I feel that. And that’s why I want to remind you (and myself, because we all need it) of something important: the power of positive thinking, rooted in faith.
Now, I know what you’re thinking: “Tia, it’s hard to stay positive when life is doing the absolute MOST.” Trust me, I get it. But hear me out. Positive thinking isn’t about ignoring the tough stuff—it’s about giving yourself the space to see beyond it. It’s about finding those little sparks of light in the darkest moments, holding onto them, and trusting that God’s plan is greater than what you see right now.
You Are Stronger Than You Think
First things first, I need you to remember how STRONG you are. You’ve survived every bad day, every challenge, and every situation you thought you couldn’t handle—and you’re still here. That’s the power of YOU. And more than that, it’s the power of faith. Even when things feel impossible, trust that God hasn’t brought you this far to leave you. So whenever that negative voice creeps in, telling you that you’re not good enough or that you can’t do it, shut it down. Replace it with, “I’ve got this, because God’s got me. I am capable through Him.” Say it out loud if you have to. Because guess what? You DO got this.
Affirm Yourself, Girl!
Speaking of saying things out loud, let’s talk about affirmations. Now, I don’t know about you, but there’s something about speaking life into myself that just hits different. Try this with me:
“I am worthy of every good thing that comes my way, because I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”
“I am capable of achieving my dreams, no matter how big they seem!”
“I am enough, exactly as I am, right now, because God doesn’t make mistakes.”
It’s not about magic or pretending everything is perfect. It’s about redirecting your thoughts and reminding yourself of your God-given strength when life feels overwhelming.
Let’s Keep It Real: Bad Days Happen
Let’s be honest: positive thinking doesn’t mean you’ll never have a bad day. It’s not some magical shield that makes everything perfect. It’s about how you handle the bad days, trusting that God is with you through it all. It’s about choosing to believe in better days ahead, even when you can’t see them yet.
On those days when everything feels heavy, give yourself grace. Take a breath, pray, cry if you need to, take a nap (because let’s be real, naps are essential! Naps are self care!), and then pick yourself up and keep going. God is not asking you to be perfect; He’s asking you to trust Him and keep moving forward. You are not defined by one hard day or even a series of them. You are a work in progress, and that’s perfectly okay.
Surround Yourself With Positivity
Sis, I can’t stress this enough: your environment matters. Where are you spending your time? Where are you working? Who are you surrounding yourself with? What are you feeding your mind? Sometimes, we need to do a little friendship spring cleaning. Surround yourself with people who lift you up, remind you of your greatness, and encourage your growth. And let’s not forget—surround yourself with prayer and those who will pray for you, too.
And if you’re feeling stuck, take a break from the noise. Unfollow accounts that drain you, turn off the news if it’s too much, and spend time doing things that make your heart happy. Whether it’s reading, dancing, skincare (hello, self-care Sundays!), or binge-watching your favorite show, feed your soul. Sometimes, the best way to hear God’s voice is to quiet the world around you.
You Are Allowed to Shine
Lastly, I want you to remember this: you are allowed to shine. You are allowed to dream big, take up space, and go after everything you want, because God put those desires in your heart for a reason. Don’t let anyone, including yourself, dim your light. You are a force, and this world is better because you’re in it.
So, here’s your friendly reminder to keep pushing, keep dreaming, and keep believing in yourself—and in God’s plan for your life. Positive thinking isn’t about perfection, it’s about progression. It’s about holding onto hope when things feel tough, leaning into faith, and knowing that you’re capable of greatness.
I’m rooting for you, always. 💛
- Tia B